First of all, if you really want to know how to be more attractive to men, you've just got to stop idolizing those photoshopped supermodel shots appearing on magazine covers, because they are air-brushed or at least, wearing best cosmetic by the best artist. You can't compete with that and most importantly, men are not that superficial in the first place.
Not to mention having supermodels as beauty standard is just unrealistic, and before you know it YOU will become superficial - like those barbie dolls. You do not need to waste so much energy on laser surgery, permanent make up, professional jaw reconstruction etc just to be more attractive to men. (OK, that was maybe a little bit of exaggeration, but you want to date only a handful of men YOU find attractive, not everyone.) So in three simple steps, here are how to be more attractive to men instantly:
1. Never fake a laugh, or a fake grin.
I put this in here because I remember last time I was having hot chocolate with a friend of mine, and noticed a couple sitting next to me. The woman was smiling, grinning from ear-to-ear to pretty much everything that the man said. She kept that grinning face that you just know half of the grins must have been fake. That couldn't be real. Most importantly, it just made her throw off the biggest desperation aura ever. We know that is not very attractive. So we know faking a grin or laugh is not going to do good (even if you are only subconsciously doing it).
2. Have confidence in yourself.
No one can judge how attractive you are but yourself. It's true. Basically, if you know you are attractive (and you really believe that), others will not disagree with you. Not only you will be more attractive to men, you will also be more attractive to others in general - talk about getting more friends, more invites to social events and hence...more MEN.
3. Clothing wise, find something that flatters your assets.
Men are visual creatures, and men do not give a crap about the 'latest fashion trends' in Cosmopolitan. Many women dress to impress other women, not men. So if you'd like to impress your sex-in-the-city little lady group, put on the newest fashion trend, including the designer expensive bag and the 'new winter look' fashion. But keep in mind that if you want to know how to be more attractive to MEN - not to your girlfriends - you need to learn how to dress to flatter your assets, whether or not it's the latest trends.
Also, buying classic clothes (non-trend) may actually save you money in the long run because a dress that fits you well will always be a dress that fits you well. It won't go out of season in less than two months or so. So ask your best friend what they think your best assets are, or you can ask your mother, your mirror, it doesn't matter. Flaunt them. Once you've found out what type of clothes fit you well, start filling up your wardrobe with more of them.
Not to mention having supermodels as beauty standard is just unrealistic, and before you know it YOU will become superficial - like those barbie dolls. You do not need to waste so much energy on laser surgery, permanent make up, professional jaw reconstruction etc just to be more attractive to men. (OK, that was maybe a little bit of exaggeration, but you want to date only a handful of men YOU find attractive, not everyone.) So in three simple steps, here are how to be more attractive to men instantly:
1. Never fake a laugh, or a fake grin.
I put this in here because I remember last time I was having hot chocolate with a friend of mine, and noticed a couple sitting next to me. The woman was smiling, grinning from ear-to-ear to pretty much everything that the man said. She kept that grinning face that you just know half of the grins must have been fake. That couldn't be real. Most importantly, it just made her throw off the biggest desperation aura ever. We know that is not very attractive. So we know faking a grin or laugh is not going to do good (even if you are only subconsciously doing it).
2. Have confidence in yourself.
No one can judge how attractive you are but yourself. It's true. Basically, if you know you are attractive (and you really believe that), others will not disagree with you. Not only you will be more attractive to men, you will also be more attractive to others in general - talk about getting more friends, more invites to social events and hence...more MEN.
3. Clothing wise, find something that flatters your assets.
Men are visual creatures, and men do not give a crap about the 'latest fashion trends' in Cosmopolitan. Many women dress to impress other women, not men. So if you'd like to impress your sex-in-the-city little lady group, put on the newest fashion trend, including the designer expensive bag and the 'new winter look' fashion. But keep in mind that if you want to know how to be more attractive to MEN - not to your girlfriends - you need to learn how to dress to flatter your assets, whether or not it's the latest trends.
Also, buying classic clothes (non-trend) may actually save you money in the long run because a dress that fits you well will always be a dress that fits you well. It won't go out of season in less than two months or so. So ask your best friend what they think your best assets are, or you can ask your mother, your mirror, it doesn't matter. Flaunt them. Once you've found out what type of clothes fit you well, start filling up your wardrobe with more of them.
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