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Looks For The Signs When Reading A Guy

By Alan Bentley

Why do guys act in such a frustrating way -- you think they will act a certain way, yet they do the complete opposite and they say they're going to do one thing, yet they do another. You never seem to know if you are reading a guy correctly. There are some easy to comprehend signs that you should look for when you are with your partner, so don't worry that you may have to make a trip to the library to study body language in depth.

When a man flexes his muscles in your presence, it is a sign that he is exhibiting something that you might have expected to see in the wild animal kingdom, a sort of primeval move. A move like this is a sign that he is trying to impress you.

When reading a guy, check to see if his head tilts to one side when you are talking to him. Experts agree that this is a sign that he is intensely interested in you, and not just what is coming out of your mouth. The fact that he is holding his head this way means that he is not just faking interest and this is a subtle body language sign to help you.

If you really believe in reading a guy, look at the way that he holds himself when you are together. If he stands with legs apart and facing you this body language means that your guy is being territorial. This doesn't mean that he will attack any other member of the male sex for approaching, as might a lion, but it does generally mean that he is quite serious about you!

Making eye contact is a good way to behave, as we are taught from an early age. In terms of reading a guy's behavior, this can be a clear sign. If he does not look at you either when you are talking or when he is talking to you, or he avoids your stare, then you know this is a bad omen. Behavior like this on a regular basis means that you should try and get to the bottom of the problem and see if you can find out what is amiss.

A man can show how serious he is about your relationship by the way he holds your hand. His true feelings will be on display if he holds your hand firmly and intertwines his fingers with yours when you are together.

Does your guy always look for an opportunity to brush against you? When reading a guy this will be a great clue, as touching this way is a great sign of affection. You can draw an analogy to your house cat, who will also always want to rub against you, most often at meal time!

Body language cannot be faked as it is a subtle and spontaneous display, so this will teach you about reading a guy in a short amount of time. Look for the signs and learn a lot about his actions.

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