You love her with all your heart, are always there for her, bear all her moods and are always her partner in crime. But, somehow, you're stuck in the friend zone. She looks at you but not that ways and she smiles at you but not the way you'd prefer. Hours on the phone, hours spent together and hours spent thinking about each other still keep you stuck with the best buddy badge. Time you made your move and here's how how to escape the friend zone by mastering the 5-A technique to her heart.
Affection: Handle this bit a tad differently. Of course girls need affection but if you're going to be like the brotherly sort being very sweet and gentle all the time, it is the friend zone where you will remain permanently. You need to be romantically affectionate. Body language is one of the best ways to change the tone of the affection you wish to express. Hold her hand a bit differently and begin by flirting lightly with her. Don't over do it because you may end up offending her and losing her.
Availability: You love the lady in your life and want to help her out but being unavailable or "just too busy" once in a while will jack up your value. You can then get back to her and explain in subtle ways that you make special effort to take out time for her. This can lead you to explaining that she's special and special not just as a friend. Of course take precaution that you don't go missing at a very crucial time when she really needs you. That will spoil the whole thing.
Attraction: Get sexy. That's as easy as said actually. But even the bees do it. Give gifts that hint at romance. Dress well with perfume and look the part. If you're going out with her, let her feel she's going out with a man and not just with a friendly neighbor.
Attention: You know virtually everything about your lady love but have you paid attention to her thoughts and ideas about romance and sex. Have you led her to one of those topics in your conversations. Direct her attention on the right path. As for yourself, pay attention to how she dresses and looks and don't hesitate to comment on that.
Add another woman: This is tough but one of the most successful tips on how to get out of the friend zone. Whether it's a cousin or colleague, try and get another woman in the picture. You don't have to necessarily be seen going out with another woman but try talking a little extra about another girl. Drop the name of the 'bait' often and mention stuff about the 'bait'. This is sure to get the jealous lights blinking and you can push your case by eventually "dumping" this other woman!
All said and done, getting out of the friend zone on to the path leading to commitment is no big deal. But if the princess you happen to be wooing has her heart set somewhere else or just refuses to see your point of view then, don't waste time. Get on with your life man!
Affection: Handle this bit a tad differently. Of course girls need affection but if you're going to be like the brotherly sort being very sweet and gentle all the time, it is the friend zone where you will remain permanently. You need to be romantically affectionate. Body language is one of the best ways to change the tone of the affection you wish to express. Hold her hand a bit differently and begin by flirting lightly with her. Don't over do it because you may end up offending her and losing her.
Availability: You love the lady in your life and want to help her out but being unavailable or "just too busy" once in a while will jack up your value. You can then get back to her and explain in subtle ways that you make special effort to take out time for her. This can lead you to explaining that she's special and special not just as a friend. Of course take precaution that you don't go missing at a very crucial time when she really needs you. That will spoil the whole thing.
Attraction: Get sexy. That's as easy as said actually. But even the bees do it. Give gifts that hint at romance. Dress well with perfume and look the part. If you're going out with her, let her feel she's going out with a man and not just with a friendly neighbor.
Attention: You know virtually everything about your lady love but have you paid attention to her thoughts and ideas about romance and sex. Have you led her to one of those topics in your conversations. Direct her attention on the right path. As for yourself, pay attention to how she dresses and looks and don't hesitate to comment on that.
Add another woman: This is tough but one of the most successful tips on how to get out of the friend zone. Whether it's a cousin or colleague, try and get another woman in the picture. You don't have to necessarily be seen going out with another woman but try talking a little extra about another girl. Drop the name of the 'bait' often and mention stuff about the 'bait'. This is sure to get the jealous lights blinking and you can push your case by eventually "dumping" this other woman!
All said and done, getting out of the friend zone on to the path leading to commitment is no big deal. But if the princess you happen to be wooing has her heart set somewhere else or just refuses to see your point of view then, don't waste time. Get on with your life man!
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