Is it too much to ask for the men in our lives to take dance lessons with us? Can we ever go to a "chick flick" without hearing sighs of boredom? All of these struggles leave us wondering if men are capable of tapping into their sensitive sides. How can we feminize a man without the frustration?
A woman's expectation may be too high. It might be too much to expect your man to drop the football and start wearing pink all in one day. You have to find a way to bring out his sensitive side while still protecting his brute side. Try to find one thing he is willing to do that still has some of his interests involved. Like a funny "chick flick".
Meet him in the middle. Maybe you can't stand the violent or crude movies that he likes anymore than he can stand the dramas. Maybe you don't like to go hunting anymore than he likes to go dancing. If you both agree to do one of the others activities together, then doing the rest without each other doesn't seem so bad.
Be careful what you wish for. So how sensitive and feminine do you want him? Maybe you want him to be less of a bad boy once in a while, but not a complete pansy. When trying to tap into his feminine side, make sure you don't accidentally bring out too much of his sensitiveness. You might get more than you bargained for.
Accept his limitations. You just can't get lemonade from a tomato. Some things just aren't possible. This may be true of your male counterpart. Most males are hard wired for being protectors and providers. But it's entirely possible that you can soften a few edges here and there.
Finally, we don't see men trying to get women to be less sensitive and less feminine. They like that about us. They want to have someone to protect. So if he isn't trying to change you, is there a reason why are you trying to change him?
A woman's expectation may be too high. It might be too much to expect your man to drop the football and start wearing pink all in one day. You have to find a way to bring out his sensitive side while still protecting his brute side. Try to find one thing he is willing to do that still has some of his interests involved. Like a funny "chick flick".
Meet him in the middle. Maybe you can't stand the violent or crude movies that he likes anymore than he can stand the dramas. Maybe you don't like to go hunting anymore than he likes to go dancing. If you both agree to do one of the others activities together, then doing the rest without each other doesn't seem so bad.
Be careful what you wish for. So how sensitive and feminine do you want him? Maybe you want him to be less of a bad boy once in a while, but not a complete pansy. When trying to tap into his feminine side, make sure you don't accidentally bring out too much of his sensitiveness. You might get more than you bargained for.
Accept his limitations. You just can't get lemonade from a tomato. Some things just aren't possible. This may be true of your male counterpart. Most males are hard wired for being protectors and providers. But it's entirely possible that you can soften a few edges here and there.
Finally, we don't see men trying to get women to be less sensitive and less feminine. They like that about us. They want to have someone to protect. So if he isn't trying to change you, is there a reason why are you trying to change him?
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